Do women believe that men don't hurt?

coz its like every time i put thought into something, they're oblivious. next to that i've never dumped a girl, they always take it upon themselves to end it for whatever reason like im not meeting their expectations or something... which is infuriating coz my expectations are never brought up. so what's the deal ladies you're always talking about being insensitive, but i find most of you to be insensitive to how insensitive you are.